Girls of this generation are too smart ;-)

hmm I would say the girls of this generation are pretty smart, but we dont know if they take wise decision(s). Sad part is: by the time they realize that its a mistake. it would be too late. I have two interesting stories that i can share ;-)

Alright. Its time for stories ;-) Its a big story, but since i am too lazy typing, i will make it short. And if you guys find it intresting, I shall add more.

Well, I came to the United states during the fall of 1998. Unlike many, I got a H1B visa & came directly for work. With gods grace, I got in to a pretty decent company as a software engineer & kicked off the long awaited green card paper work ;-) I am the youngest of the 3 & i got a lot of support from my bro & sis. My elder brother got married just before the new millenium & my sister got engaged & married in the spring of 2000.

As usual, my mom wanted me to get married soon & settle down in life cos she felt i got a decent job & a marraige would make my life complete. But she also knew that i was too damn picky. For some reason, i was so in to Vedas & learning slokas & so I used to go to the temple every day cos it was just a 5 min drive from my work place. This continued for like more than 2 years, and my mom initially thought & was really scared that i might take up sanyas. :)) My sister & my Brother-in-law decided to speed up the process by giving advt in Hindu & tamil Matrimonial. haha. As usual, we got a ton of horoscopes & pictures for alliance. For some reason, i didnt want to get married before 29 & so i decided not to proceed with any of the horoscopes.

I guess, god really wanted to test my control or something. In the spring of 2003, there was an ad in the tamilmatrimony.com for a girl named "ghayathri" It was posted by her parents, and they were seeking a decent, well settled youngster for their daughter. She was doing her BDS in Chennai, and their family recently moved from Kuwait (following saddam's invasion) My sister initiated the contact & the girls parents saw my pic & got the consent from the girl & they wanted me to talk to the girl. I saw the pic, & initially i didnt want to proceed, but still, i thought of giving a call just to show them that i am kinda decent. :-)

Hmm what do you expect when you talk to a girl for the first time? Well, its obvious that we both knew the reason for the call. hahaha. But I heard something unusual.. After the usual Hi dialogues.. without any warning came "I want you (my future husband) to sponsor me for my higher studies". Well, I took it on a positive note, cos for some reason, i thought she might be a nice girl. We spoke for like an hour & she said she got an internet connection & she would be online & it would be cheaper/easier to chat. Her Mom & Dad liked me very much & just in a day, they met my mom in chennai and expressed their interest to proceed with this alliance. This was my first experience with the chat & she was the only girl i spoke to! (reg. marraige) The chat started off very well, and we got to know each other's interest & for a moment I thought she was the one ;-)

I am busy and I will continue later. ;-)

Well, one can't force anything on anyone.

Ethu nadanthatho athu nanraga nadanthathu Ethu nadakiratho athu nanragave nadakirathu Ethu nadaka irukiratho athuvum Nandragave nadakkum

Ethu indru unnudaiyatho athu nalai matraruvarudaiyagirathu Marunaal athu veroruvarudai- yathagum Inda Matram ulaga neethiyagum

Unudaiyathu ethai elandai,etharkaga nee alugurai Ethu kondu vanthai athai nee elakirai Ethai nee padaithirukirai athai veenakavatharku Ethai nee eduthukondayo athu ingiranthu edukapatathu Ethai koduthayo athu ingiranthu kodukapatathu

-Lord Sri Krishna-